blaming the victim
So I have been thinking deeply into this topic before typing here and I just want to share this information/knowledge with you in order to help you with making the right decisions in your life.
I wanna begin with explaining why I have created this topic;
When I was 10 years old (7y ago), I was a muslim born in a muslim country in a society where people actually force you to believe in Islam. Anyway.. My parents and friends and elder people always told me that we should hate those that are not believing in our religion, I was a kid... I wasn't taught to question what I was being told and that I always had to believe in what I was hearing about islam and other religions. The ignorant people did brainwash me to the point where I actually became another version of them. There was/is no real education in my home-country so I was just following their footsteps; Nobody ever taught me to never judge someone by their look and ... you know that kind of stuff you see in everyday life....
When we first moved to Sweden, I was judging christians for their look, clothes, religion ... etc I was simply HATING them without not knowing anythig about their past and background...
Few years after moving to Sweden i actually realised that I had been living in a society with full of ignorant people! Who actually brainwashed me... I dont know what but something woke me up from thay scary lie. I started questioning my decisions and thoughts; Why I shouldnt judge people without knowing them, Why I shouldnt blame a KKK member for being in KKK or whY I shouldnt blame someone who joined Isis...
So to find answers to my questions I tried to put myself in their shoes and try to understand why that person would make such decision....
I have actually figured that out;
Ones decisions are caused by their PAST and BACKGROUND.
Let me explain this to you;
A soldier joins the military because he eiter thinks that he/she is serving his/her country and protecting from enemies or he has been told by his father to follow his lead (maybe his father was a cold person to him, and never talked about his life?) There are many possibilities... But there's something that they are not aware of; "Soldiers are puppets of the government, they dont give a damn about that soldiers life.. they send him/her to war and risk that persons life... " - Now If that soldier was aware of this, if he/she was taught that his decision is wrong ... do you think he still would join the military? If his cold hearted father had talked to him about ....life?... I dont think that...
So what I am trying to say here is that you should never ever blame an uneducated person because that person was not educated and taught to make the correct decisions (a soldier, killer, rapist, pedo.. whatever you name it)... Those people become that way because of their past and background; Some are mentally and physically abused, some are left alone, some are not helped, some have had trajedic lives... Do you understand what I am trying to say?
Some guy who joined isis was definitely NEVER educated to make the right decisions or never taught about what is right and what is wrong, that someone has been brainwashed..
that someone does not know what questioning decisions means... that someone is under the controll of bloody leaders...
Millions of people are in that position right now, struggling and suffering what life has offered them .... But fuck what life has done to them, why dont we help instead of judging and blaming? If we are not here to help eachother out ... then what is our purpose of living?
It is hard for some people to understand what Iam trying to explain here but unfortuantely this is where you start thinking twice before making a decision...
So please, always PUT YOURSELF in their SHOES and see for yourself how it is for them, understand why their made those decisions in their life, what made them to become like that...
NO ONE IS BORN RACIST,
NO ONE IS BORN MUSLIM OR CHRIST.
NO ONE IS BORN HATEFUL.
This is all TAUGHT to them.Filed under: People
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